Entry 8: Hate

Think of the person in your life that you dislike the most. This should be someone who you know and who knows you, not a political, entertainment, or historical person (sorry Justin Bieber haters). This is a person who is in your life. It could be a teacher (even me), classmate, relative, or anyone else as long as you actually know each other. Do not name this person or describe your relationship to him or her more than is necessary. Try to explain why you dislike this person so much. Begin by describing him or her physically, then describe his/her behavior and personality. Analyze what it is that you dislike. Try to define the aspects of this person that you dislike, then explain why they bother you so much. Try to think of ways in which you might be able to overcome your dislike. Is it possible?

•  I won't describe the physical appearance of this person that I hate, since I believe that describing him won't help with your imagination (because of a lack of details). It's too troublesome. However, I can give you quite a good description of his behavior. First, I'll say that this person is very... ignorant. If he thinks that you're not worth his time or that you're not "good enough" to talk to him, he ignores you. And he does this by waving you off, or by saying "whatever" and "I don't care". Therefore, I believe that it's hard to communicate with this person, and I decided that I would be better off avoiding and not talking to him. Another thing that I can say about this person is that he is a person who likes to scheme a lot. For example, he acts really friendly when he is with the people he likes or prefers. However, when he is with people that he dislikes and does not prefer, he tends to become really rude. Also, another act that shows his scheming mind is that when he wants something, usually benefits, from a person he usually dislikes, he will suddenly pretend to be really friendly. But as soon as a person's usefulness ends, he goes back to his rude self. I believe that the only way I can overcome my dislike it to stay away from this person and not see his "rude side" for a while.